In “China — Here We Are”, Andrea Klopper writes that “a good way to start building relationships is through asking questions.” Here is a list of questions for getting to know people and understand their culture in greater depth.
- Within the household, what are the responsibilities of family and extended family members?
- When is it appropriate for people to get married? How does an individual find a partner?
- How does the person perceive his or her own social standing or status? (Be careful how you ask this!)
- What are considered to be status symbols?
- What are the main religious practices/routines?
- Who are the significant spiritual leaders?
- Are there any superstitions in the culture?
- What is the attitude towards suffering?
- Are there any special practices associated with death and grieving?
- What is considered bad behavior in the household?
- What are the main forms of discipline?
- What seems to make the people happy? Angry? Sad?
- How are emotions expressed?
- What are appropriate relationships with people of the opposite sex?
- What is the attitude towards children? The elderly?
- How do people relax or pass time?
- How is time viewed? What about privacy?
- What motivates people?
- How is respect shown? What is considered disrespectful?
- What are the ways people learn?
- What goals do people have in life?
- Who is considered a friend? How is friendship looked upon?
- How important is gift-giving? When are gifts given? What are good or bad gifts and why?
